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Ask Aphrodite!
/ hey dite |
on: Jan 19th, 2008, 3:54pm |
| Started by Doylesgirl | Post by Doylesgirl |
dear dite
yeah, you're kinda mia at the moment cos of the welsh love day next week, and the worldwide one in a months time, but i figured i wud ask you this anyway, or any other member who reads this and can offer timely advice.
me and my b/f have been an ites for about 2.5 months, although it's an internet relationship, we've been friends for about 7 years, so the whole he might be a paedo thing is irrelevant. we've spoken, web cammed and texted each other etc.
but there's a problem, he is keeping me a serect, cos his culture is different, well he lives in canada, but hi family is proud, and it's a mixed race relationship, so i can understand his whole worryingness of telling his parents.
i'm open with it on my end, well kinda open my li'l sis knows all about it, as do a few of my friends.
but that's kinda besides the point. i am just really worried there is something wring with me that he wants to keep me a secret. like i went out with a guy in a group of friends i had a few years ago, and he wanted to keep it a secret. also my last semi serious b/f wanted to keep us under wraps too.
i kept telling myself the first time it happened it was his problem, not mine. the second time i just ended it, well to be fair i had to end it cos i didn't like the guy as much as he liked me. this time it is different, cos we've been friends for so long, also he made the first move, not me-for a change.
but is there something wrong with? or shall i give him an ultimatum or something else?
d/g
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/ My problem... |
on: Oct 18th, 2007, 8:53pm |
| Started by Storm | Post by Storm |
Dear Aphrodite,
Ever since high school (about 5 years now) I have kinda been out of the dating game. Since my messy break up with my ex during my senior prom I have kinda had a problem trusting guys. The guys I do meet are eather taken, jerks or end up using me to boost their grades. So, I kinda gave up on finding love or even a date for that matter while I am going to school. I have been 100% focused on my Family, Friends and School. Now that I am getting closer to graduation, I kinda wanna get back in the saddle so to speak. I need some help though. I haven't dated since High school. Now that I am an adult, obviously the things that worked in High school won't work for adult me. What do I do?
Stuck in a Time Warp?
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/ Question of Love |
on: Sep 18th, 2007, 5:40pm |
| Started by Alayia | Post by Alayia |
Hey, Dite!
I have a question! So, there's this guy I like, right? And I have liked him for three years now- it's great because we're still pretty good friends. He listens to me about things. Like, I'll say something about my sister being sick- a week later, he'll ask how she's doing! He's amazing. Anyway, I talked to him at lunch today, and told him that I think I was getting sick (which I'm getting a cold, ew) and we said goodbye and he sat down with his friends. But later, I was walking and ran into one of his best friends, whom I know from having classes together, we'll call this guy Friend. And Friend did the usual "How're you?" thing and I only said I was "doing well." and then he told me verbatim. "I heard you were getting sick." Once I told him that I was okay and that it was just a cold and we said goodbye, it hit me that my Crush was talking about me to his friends.
Is it just small talk to his buddies (Like "Who were you talking to?" "Oh, her, she's getting sick"), or should I really be excited about this?
~Head over Heels
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/ Re: Aphrodite, I need your advice |
on: Aug 7th, 2007, 6:16pm |
| Started by Amazon_Princess | Post by Aphrodite |
Dear Lonely,
Girlfriend you have so much good stuff to offer that you should be numero uno! Being introverted can make it a bit rough but it's all about projecting confidence and friendliness. Make eye contact, smile, and join in conversations in class. You don't need to be a know it all, but a warm smile and eye contact can go a long way.
I've just gotten hooked on this show called America's Next Top Model and girl, it is FAB! That Tyra has it working and she's all about coaching women to be fierce and confident. Now granted, none of these girls can hold a candle me (really, who can?) but I suggest watching a few episodes. Listen to what they say about projecting confidence, even if you aren't feeling it. Find your style but really, just smile!
Affectionately,
Aphrodite
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/ Aphrodite, I need your advice |
on: Jul 30th, 2007, 11:01am |
| Started by Amazon_Princess | Post by Amazon_Princess |
Dear Aphrodite,
I am about to start school in the fall and I'm worried about making new friends. I have a very introverted personality and I tend to be shy around new people. I want to be more social and be myself, but I'm afraid my peers will just think I'm a huge weirdo. How can I make new friends that will accept me for who I am?
Sincerely,
Lonely and Worried
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/ Re: umm...yeah |
on: Jun 2nd, 2007, 09:41am |
| Started by Doylesgirl | Post by Bryn |
on Jan 5th, 2007, 9:36pm, Aphrodite wrote:| Talking about long term future? Sounds like he's taking courting lessons from Ares! |
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Sometimes I wish Ares would talk about long term future, but there's always this war to brew or that scuffle to provoke, and he never wants to stop and talk about us! ^_~
Aimee, don't worry about feeling guilty... hearts change, and sometimes when we get what we were sure we wanted, we realize that it isn't all it's cracked up to be and we don't really want it anymore... *huggles*
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/ Re: mm |
on: Apr 20th, 2007, 3:58pm |
| Started by Doylesgirl | Post by Doylesgirl |
yeah... i feel kinda bad now. cos he's a Catholic, he went to the Vatican in Rome for Easter... he didn't tell me cos his folks sprang it on him last minute 
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Ask Aphrodite!
/ Re: mm |
on: Apr 20th, 2007, 2:58pm |
| Started by Doylesgirl | Post by Aphrodite |
Girlfriend, he totally sounds like a typical male pig. Even if you were out only a few times and he didn't tell tell you before he took off, he's a total toad-and not the prince type. Dump him and move onto greener pastures. There's like, totally a ton of hot men over in your area!
Affectionately,
Aphrodite
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