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Doylesgirl
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hey dite
« Thread started on: Jan 19th, 2008, 3:54pm » |
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dear dite yeah, you're kinda mia at the moment cos of the welsh love day next week, and the worldwide one in a months time, but i figured i wud ask you this anyway, or any other member who reads this and can offer timely advice.
me and my b/f have been an ites for about 2.5 months, although it's an internet relationship, we've been friends for about 7 years, so the whole he might be a paedo thing is irrelevant. we've spoken, web cammed and texted each other etc.
but there's a problem, he is keeping me a serect, cos his culture is different, well he lives in canada, but hi family is proud, and it's a mixed race relationship, so i can understand his whole worryingness of telling his parents.
i'm open with it on my end, well kinda open my li'l sis knows all about it, as do a few of my friends.
but that's kinda besides the point. i am just really worried there is something wring with me that he wants to keep me a secret. like i went out with a guy in a group of friends i had a few years ago, and he wanted to keep it a secret. also my last semi serious b/f wanted to keep us under wraps too.
i kept telling myself the first time it happened it was his problem, not mine. the second time i just ended it, well to be fair i had to end it cos i didn't like the guy as much as he liked me. this time it is different, cos we've been friends for so long, also he made the first move, not me-for a change.
but is there something wrong with? or shall i give him an ultimatum or something else?
d/g
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Re: hey dite
« Reply #1 on: Jan 24th, 2008, 3:52pm » |
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never mind, i think we just we broke up
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